You don’t have to be a teen mom because your mother was
You don’t have to be an absent father because of your dad
Know what this experience did to you and how it affected your life
It should make you desire more for yourself and your future.
You should never want for your child to know the meaning of struggle
To know what it’s like to hear you say ‘I can’t do it or afford it’
Don’t be mad at that baby for crying because you’re tired
That child didn’t ask to be here and its selfish
Its selfish that you would want to take away from their experience
And their development because you wanted what you wanted when you wanted it
If you don’t have the time or the means
Don’t put yourself in a situation you’ll regret
Live your life doing what you want before you have kids
If you don’t see your baby traveling with you,
If you can’t imagine being a parent for the rest of your life
Stop playing Russian Roulette with your body
And if you’re going to have a baby with someone,
At least make sure their responsible enough to step up
Make sure they are in a place where they can handle it themselves
So that your baby won’t experience the feelings of an absent parent,
A dead beat or someone who just doesn’t want them
It’s okay to be young and I understand life happens
But if you can break the curse
Give your seed the opportunities you wanted
Put yourself in the position to be available for the field trips
The school meetings, parent teacher conferences, and all the other events
Don’t look back and wish you would have waited
Enjoy your freedom while you can
Because you don’t know what your future may hold
And you don’t have to create barriers that weren’t designed to be there
No child is a barrier but requirements for children are more than you think
It’s not until people have kids they realize how challenging it is
It’s all love and smiles when you’re ready
But make sure that you are before you do
That’s one change that can’t be reversed
Make your life easier and make their lives enjoyable
Because it’s all worth it in the end
Now take your time and create the future you desire for not only them,
But for you too
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